Hello fellow lifestyle folks,

My partner and I have been in a ENM relationship for over a year now.

Half a year ago, we went to NYC and we found a third to join us in the bedroom. My partner and the third hit it off great and we all had a good time. We’ve all stayed in contact through socials and the idea of my partner flying down solo to replay has been brought up.

We decided to bite the bullet and set a date and bought flights. My partner will be going alone and I’m considering this like a loaning my boyfriend out.

We’ve renegotiated our rules and we’ve covered topics that aren’t in our normal rule book such as sleep over protocols, how often we communicate while he’s away, how much I intervene/ set up, who pays for dinners, PDA.

What are some things I should consider when flying my partner out to go on a weekend long play date

TIA