I (M26) have a girlfriend (F25) I’m in a committed relationship with. She’s made it clear she likes guys and girls but never really had the chance to experiment with girls. I told her I have no issue with that as long as I vet and approve of the woman.

We have a mutual friend my girlfriend is very interested in who is sweet, very respectful towards me and attractive. I told both of them it’s a yes.

To this day nothing has happened between them. They flirt, but my girlfriend is terrified of initiating as is our mutual friend. I also know that she is attracted to both my girlfriend and I at this point.

My girlfriend has entertained the idea of a threesome and even hinted at it multiple times. Toying with the idea of me taking control of the situation. I am almost certain our mutual friend would be interested as well.

I’m at a point where I wonder if I could make this happen for my girlfriend (i do not need to be involved, i’ve done my experimenting already) but don’t want to push or make anyone uncomfortable.

But I believe this won’t happen at all if I don’t. What do you think?