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No nesting partner
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Recently ended things with my LTR nesting parter, have 2 additional partners. I’m having an extremely difficult time coming to terms that I’m no longer someone’s “priority”, if that makes sense. Struggling with the idea when push comes to shove, I’m on my own. Other two partners have their own families, obligations, and responsibilities. I know I need to find myself, so to speak, get used to a new normal, but I hate this. Neither partner is in the position of being a potential NP. Advice?
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Do you want a primary partner or do you literally want a nesting partner (someone who cohabitats with you)?
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I understand that desire. You want to be prioritized. Try to build your support network and still appreciate that you have partners and friends who are there for you. We all need more than a primary to lean on and to be there for. Now is a time to build that up.
Take your time finding a new primary. It is probably wise to move slow. And good luck. It can be lonely for some of to feel "single' (I know you aren't single, but it can feel that way).