So my wife and I have had threesomes with women for a few years now and recently started introducing men and have talked about opening up our marriage. We have 2 children who we do not get a break from but maybe 5 nights out the year. We want to be in the lifestyle to make new friends and meet new people because we don’t get that chance together but I’m having trouble with fear and jealousy even after reassurance. We’ve been together 9 years and I’m submissive and she’s been craving more dominance from other men cause we use bigger toys and keep me caged now. I want her to have those experiences and see where it takes us, it’s just still so hard to think about her with other men and it ends up ruining it cause it turns me on during play time but I feel I over think it so much when it’s not play time that it keeps me from fully giving in. Do you just start and it gets easier or are there tips or tricks that can help??