Me and my partner have been together for over half a year now, she’s very gorgeous, easy to talk to and harmlessly flirty which means a lot of men do hit on her. When she’d tell about a bloke hitting on her at work or an old flame messaging her, I used to feel jealous and insecure but over the past few months my entire mindset has drastically changed.

Thanks to a few in detail ‘cuckhold’ dreams i’ve had and exposure to a few different subreddits (including this one), I’ve started to warm to the idea of my partner sleeping with other people. I myself am not interested in sleeping with other people so call this one sided if you will.

We’ve spoken about our interest in threesomes but never really meant it if you get what I mean? It’s been discussed, joked about but never actually insinuated. We’ve also joked about her having a side piece, I pretended to be deadly serious about her getting one and instead of an outright disgust reaction she kind of went along with it jokingly but I could sense a feeling of ‘hmm’ from her.

I really want to openly tell her my new found fantasy but I fear this would push her away or make her see me in a way I don’t want her to. How can I properly bring this up to her? Do I continue with the soft hints and banter? I would really like some help, if you require more context or information to aid you in your response I’ll happily do so!