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Basically everytime we have sex, it’s not spontaneous and pre planned. She noticed my sex drive was higher than hers and ask me why I can’t just fuck someone else and to my dismay, she was serious. We spent last night talking about who would be off limits and how it would work. I told her I don’t feel the same way and if she was to be with another guy, I’d most likely break up with her. She promised me she wouldn’t hookup with anyone if I accepted her offer, but to me it feels risky. I trust her word yet it bothers me. For some reason it also makes me more attracted to her. This is a someone I’m in love with and I’m committed too so I want to tread as carefully as possible and her to know as much as possible. We’re gonna read through replies tg so responses to either party are welcome.
Because she's more comfortable with you fucking other women than speaking to her doctor about remedies for the situation?
There are medications that can counteract the loss of libido caused by a drug side-effect. But it's easier for her to pawn you off onto someone else than address it with her doctor. Riiiiiiiight.... those red flags aren't the open of the Beijing Olympics Ceremony... those are problem warnings.
I would recommend it be open on our side. So she has the free-will to explore it or not as time goes on. Know that it will be much, much, much easier for her to find NSA partners than yourself. But bring the lower libido partner she might never seriously attempt it. Know that it will likely be much trickier for you to find a match without being emotionally available.
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