Why do you think people aren't privacy conscious or trustworthy at lifestyle resorts or clubs? Besides there is mutually assured destruction for that other person if they were to try to reveal you. Lots of people are very privacy conscious & discreet whether you pay for Kasidie.com or go to a lifestyle resort, club or party there are people with morality clauses still able to live their best life. I've been to sex parties & resorts with big time politicians, financiers & celebrities. No one is outing them & I assure you the stakes are bigger for them. You're not trying to get away with murder here.

It's the same thing with Feeld. Also people will do similar things on Kasidie & then send deleting photos on telegram (messaging app where you can either hide phone # or use a Google phone #). 3fun, Feeld & Kasidie all work. 3fun & Feeld are better about finding single makes (or men who play separate from their partners). Kasidie is best by far about getting notifications for take overs, clubs, parties and events. I really highly recommend going to a club & a resort or take over. The take overs or a resort are so great because you get to know someone(s) for hours by the pool, and people don't tend to define themselves by their work or their politics. It's a sexy environment, you can slow build chemistry, and you're away from your real world worries.

Hotel lobby bars that are busy are a lot better than an average bar. But if your more introvert instead of extrovert bar scene is a lot of people looking at their phone & you needing to find a brief moment they aren't and trying to initiate conversation. Sex clubs, play parties you're not allowed to have your phone out except in designated area and everyone there is much more extroverted and looking for the same thing.