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Heyo,
I want to discuss something about open relationships and swinging.
Recently, I shared my fantasies about open relationships and swinging with my girlfriend and it didn't go well. She's a devoted Christian, and while I am too and I'm no longer practicing.
I brought up the idea of exploring intimate relationships, she kept saying it's not the right time. She thinks God has time for everything, but I can't agree with her stance.
What if she's not satisfied with me or I'm not satisfied with her sexual drive? I'm sexually active all the time except at work. As soon as I reach home, my fantasies kick in, and I have wild erotic dreams and thoughts.
She's against watching erotic videos and photos, and I never forced her to. It's her life and choice.
To me, not exploring sexuality in the name of religion is wrong. The West has moved on from this mindset, but many in India still hold into it because of religion.
What are your thoughts on bringing religion into discussions about my fantasies and sexuality?
This is a conversation you need to have with her. No amount of people justifying or having your back is going to matter. It seems like you two need counseling and if she feels that way you guys are just incompatible this is like a complete deal breaker.
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