She has had a couple hangouts with one person in particular now with (Tim) let’s say. We have house parties and as they wind down the end up on the couch cuddling into one another and holding one another and solely giving each other all… we’ll all his and 90 percent hers ( with her glancing over at me or seeing what I’m upto from the couch as I walk by ) and the second time they made out while cuddling . Usually 2-3hrs there like that. As I hang with a friend at our house doing other things. I haven’t had any opportunities arise where I can spend time with a woman to keep me occupied. I feel somewhat ignored and not important at times and I feel like I’m always the one joining them on the couch to cuddle or Im the one pulling her away to spend time and be close like that with her aswell . We’ve talked about what I feel I need to be reassured and she’s agreed but twice now she just assumes I’m ok with her starting advancements and I come inside from smoking and their holding each other cuddling . I want to work it on it and find ways to deal with my jealousy and slight fears of getting sidelines and not feeling like I’m the most important out of the two men . Work in progress and we’re communicating all the feelings . I guess my question is …. Is it a bad cituation to let her build emotions and say feeling and comfort from just one other guy , will he become More important and win all her Time over eventually