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I think it’s fair to listen the children of ENM/Poly
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If it doesn’t apply to you, then there’s no reason to be offended. Just like yall aren’t offended when someone makes a post describing a shitty meta or hinge; please listen to the children of these same people who are talking about their experiences, good or bad.

I myself have 2 young children and it’s always a reminder to me that beyond Google docs and shared schedules, there are kids who want family time that includes ALL members of the family. Scheduling family time where both parents spend time with the kids together is very important. This information is also important for metas who want their time with their married partner. Sometimes you need to sit by yourself and let your partner be with their kids.

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im not a guy thank you for assuming my gender also. I would love to see all these other stories you're talking so i can reach out to them and make them actually feel seen. You're so certain its fake, maybe they're people having the same experiences as me. you're so quick to try and call something out as fake because you dont like it. I see constant posts on the poly reddit about one person opening the relationship and having nre and completely abandoning their husband or wife and none of those ever get called out as fake. everyone actually listens to them and makes them feel seen and they don't shit all over their experience. And everyone wonders why kids don't speak up more, because when we do everyone shits on us and calls us liars.

i had several people people reach out to me via dm and chat because either they had some of the same experiences as me, or theyre watching their husband or wife doing the same thing to their kid after they were forced to open up the relationship. at least one person comment on my post that they saw the same issues I was talking about. so maybe this happens more than people realize. but thanks again for shitting on my experiences again like you did in my post..

edit since they responded but deleted their response and the post i replied to apparently

you're trying to call out my experience as fake because other people may have posted similar stories? so every time any kid posts saying their parents abandoned them so they could dump all their time into dating and fucking others its going to be fake? i guess any of the other kids i met who had the exact same experiences as me shouldn't post because it'll just get deleted and called fake, and we'll all just get shit on? thank you again henri for shitting over all of us who had parents abandon us for poly and invalidating all our experiences, i guess i don't exist and it never happened to me or anyone else

I would love to see all these other stories you're talking so i can reach out to them and make them actually feel seen.

They all get deleted for being trolls and the username banned from the sub.

You're so certain its fake, maybe they're people having the same experiences as me.

Or all one guy.

you're so quick to try and call something out as fake because you dont like it.

Not quick. But after seeing is around 10 times and then one of the stories retold from the mom's POV. Yeah. These were fake. Your is strikingly similar.

I see constant posts on the poly reddit about one person opening the relationship and having nre and completely abandoning their husband or wife and none of those ever get called out as fake.

If I saw someone make the same post repeatedly under different user names and it appeared to be driven by a desire to concern troll, people would call it fake. Have definitely seen that happen.

everyone actually listens to them and makes them feel seen and they don't shit all over their experience.

When the seem legit, yes.

And everyone wonders why kids don't speak up more, because when we do everyone shits on us and calls us liars.

maybe this happens more than people realize. but thanks again for shitting on my experiences again like you did in my post.

Everyone realizes shitty parenting is common.

Your username reveals your intention to frame this is an issue related to being a child of poly parents rather than a discussion of your experience as an individual. This is well crafted propaganda and its hard to tell how much is reality based. Good luck to you.

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No, the person above copied and pasted and modified my post to be an asshole.

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Don't neglect your kids.

im not a guy thank you for assuming my gender also. I would love to see all these other stories you're talking so i can reach out to them and make them actually feel seen. You're so certain its fake, maybe they're people having the same experiences as me. you're so quick to try and call something out as fake because you dont like it. I see constant posts on the poly reddit about one person opening the relationship and having nre and completely abandoning their husband or wife and none of those ever get called out as fake. everyone actually listens to them and makes them feel seen and they don't shit all over their experience. And everyone wonders why kids don't speak up more, because when we do everyone shits on us and calls us liars.

i had several people people reach out to me via dm and chat because either they had some of the same experiences as me, or theyre watching their husband or wife doing the same thing to their kid after they were forced to open up the relationship. at least one person comment on my post that they saw the same issues I was talking about. so maybe this happens more than people realize. but thanks again for shitting on my experiences again like you did in my post..

edit since they responded but deleted their response and the post i replied to apparently

you're trying to call out my experience as fake because other people may have posted similar stories? so every time any kid posts saying their parents abandoned them so they could dump all their time into dating and fucking others its going to be fake? i guess any of the other kids i met who had the exact same experiences as me shouldn't post because it'll just get deleted and called fake, and we'll all just get shit on? thank you again henri for shitting over all of us who had parents abandon us for poly and invalidating all our experiences, i guess i don't exist and it never happened to me or anyone else

I would love to see all these other stories you're talking so i can reach out to them and make them actually feel seen.

They all get deleted for being trolls and the username banned from the sub.

You're so certain its fake, maybe they're people having the same experiences as me.

Or all one guy.

you're so quick to try and call something out as fake because you dont like it.

Not quick. But after seeing is around 10 times and then one of the stories retold from the mom's POV. Yeah. These were fake. Your is strikingly similar.

I see constant posts on the poly reddit about one person opening the relationship and having nre and completely abandoning their husband or wife and none of those ever get called out as fake.

If I saw someone make the same post repeatedly under different user names and it appeared to be driven by a desire to concern troll, people would call it fake. Have definitely seen that happen.

everyone actually listens to them and makes them feel seen and they don't shit all over their experience.

When the seem legit, yes.

And everyone wonders why kids don't speak up more, because when we do everyone shits on us and calls us liars.

maybe this happens more than people realize. but thanks again for shitting on my experiences again like you did in my post.

Everyone realizes shitty parenting is common.

Your username reveals your intention to frame this is an issue related to being a child of poly parents rather than a discussion of your experience as an individual. This is well crafted propaganda and its hard to tell how much is reality based. Good luck to you.

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im not a guy thank you for assuming my gender also. I would love to see all these other stories you're talking so i can reach out to them and make them actually feel seen. You're so certain its fake, maybe they're people having the same experiences as me. you're so quick to try and call something out as fake because you dont like it. I see constant posts on the poly reddit about one person opening the relationship and having nre and completely abandoning their husband or wife and none of those ever get called out as fake. everyone actually listens to them and makes them feel seen and they don't shit all over their experience. And everyone wonders why kids don't speak up more, because when we do everyone shits on us and calls us liars.

i had several people people reach out to me via dm and chat because either they had some of the same experiences as me, or theyre watching their husband or wife doing the same thing to their kid after they were forced to open up the relationship. at least one person comment on my post that they saw the same issues I was talking about. so maybe this happens more than people realize. but thanks again for shitting on my experiences again like you did in my post..

edit since they responded but deleted their response and the post i replied to apparently

you're trying to call out my experience as fake because other people may have posted similar stories? so every time any kid posts saying their parents abandoned them so they could dump all their time into dating and fucking others its going to be fake? i guess any of the other kids i met who had the exact same experiences as me shouldn't post because it'll just get deleted and called fake, and we'll all just get shit on? thank you again henri for shitting over all of us who had parents abandon us for poly and invalidating all our experiences, i guess i don't exist and it never happened to me or anyone else

I would love to see all these other stories you're talking so i can reach out to them and make them actually feel seen.

They all get deleted for being trolls and the username banned from the sub.

You're so certain its fake, maybe they're people having the same experiences as me.

Or all one guy.

you're so quick to try and call something out as fake because you dont like it.

Not quick. But after seeing is around 10 times and then one of the stories retold from the mom's POV. Yeah. These were fake. Your is strikingly similar.

I see constant posts on the poly reddit about one person opening the relationship and having nre and completely abandoning their husband or wife and none of those ever get called out as fake.

If I saw someone make the same post repeatedly under different user names and it appeared to be driven by a desire to concern troll, people would call it fake. Have definitely seen that happen.

everyone actually listens to them and makes them feel seen and they don't shit all over their experience.

When the seem legit, yes.

And everyone wonders why kids don't speak up more, because when we do everyone shits on us and calls us liars.

maybe this happens more than people realize. but thanks again for shitting on my experiences again like you did in my post.

Everyone realizes shitty parenting is common.

Your username reveals your intention to frame this is an issue related to being a child of poly parents rather than a discussion of your experience as an individual. This is well crafted propaganda and its hard to tell how much is reality based. Good luck to you.

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