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It seems like every other couple looking for threesomes is having luck finding women to have sex with now. Is the idea that unicorns are rare outdated now? Are there more single women interested in couples now?
The idea that you will find a single woman to date both you and your partner and never ask for anything other than what you pre-decided was on the table for her, and never date anyone else, and always be happy with second class citizen status, and be ok with the two of you always priortizing your orignal couple (polyamory unicorn hunthing) is a myth. That person doesn't exist. So it's a tongue in cheek joke to call this mythical person a unicorn because unicorns don't exist.
People use the term to denote the above and also just a woman open to threesomes. I hate the term and think it's often a way for people seeking a woman for a threesome to use a term that is dehumazing. They are "people" and she a is a "unicorn" but of course that's not universally true.
I'd say it's absolutely still true that the number of couples seeking threeseomes exceeds the number of women interested in joining a couple for a threesome. Probably 100 to 1. However, most of those couples offer such an absolute shit deal, they aren't actually ever going to meet anyone or appeal to anyone.
Do you ask because you are interested in the term itself, the difference between unicorn hunting in polyamory vs the search for casual threesomes or because you are part of a couple seeking to find a woman for a threesome?
It seems like every other couple looking for threesomes is having luck finding women to have sex with now.
As a longterm swinger I'd say no, that's not true.
You left out the biggest category. Bi, but not into threesomes. Lol.
Ransom question. Do you genuinely think most people seeking threesomes would turn down a hot bi woman who wants to fuck them, but isn't single?
Not sure where are you are seeing all these threesome videos. But this as odd take. I'll leave it that.
That the teeny tiny fraction of people who post their sex online is in any way an indication of what people are doing in private overall.
threesomes were so trendy around 2005 that many couples just wanted to look cool on a public three-way date.
Facinating. I've been on so many threeway dates. It's never occured to me at all to consider myself looking cool. People are so strange.
Oh yes. I had so many creepy couples approach me over the years while I was single and when I was in a relationship that I was very reluctant to seek threesomes with my male partner because I didn't even want to be associated with any of that.
Ironically, the lions share of bi women interested in threesomes are seeking someone as part of a couple. They had zero interest when single.
None are threesome dispensers.
A fraction of bi women are open to threesomes.
None are dispensers.
It's a myth that bi women are threesome dispensers. Sadly. They are just people. Trying to live their lives.
I know they are out there.
They aren't threesome dispensers though.
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Couples are still all over the internet complaining bitterly about not finding this. I assure. Spend a week on the swinger sub.
Are you confusing amateur porn and content creators with real life.