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Howdy Iām 26 years old and wondering about how I can find another partner to join the family Iām building. I have a partner as is and Iāve struggled with the idea of instinct it feels like of if non-monogamy is right for me (with family members practicing non-monogamy) or having a healthy relationship and household.
We have tried dating apps but I donāt think thatās the way to meet someone properly. Any ideas or thoughts? Any success stories?
My partner and I have been together since literally middle school and this is a topic weāve discussed for at least 8 years now and sheās grow more comfortable within herself around the subject and topic. Sheās even encouraged exploring as of late, mentioning her own desire to have experiences with a woman as well.
However, I donāt want to be in a rush out of excitement to find someone. I believe that in my past experiences that has caused more problems. Iām actively and consciously looking for a second wife thatāll fit into what we have and want to build.
She herself is bi-curious but has had suppressed feelings and weāve tried dating with someone else in the past but we had complications occur. But we are both feeling open to it again and taking it much slower than before.
Iām just not sure how to open up myself to explain the situation and beliefs that comes with it. Being that itās not a common thing to out right practice where I am. Itās something not something thatās common where I am. āHow do you as a couple get out there to find what works for you both?ā Might be the real question.
Just to reiterate weāre not out looking for things like flings and intimate experiences. Weāre looking to expand our family and build something healthy, good, and spiritually oriented working towards marriage (even though itās not legal in my state) or a cohesive and harmonious relationship and lifestyle in non-monogamy.
I hope this makes sense to someone and Iād love some advice from the experienced folks if possible or anyone that could relate. Thank you!
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