I just need outsiders opinion on a situation that happened last night.

I was due to meet a couple m & f for a dare last night and potential join them in their hotel room. This would of been my first "3 way experience" if this went ahead and my first time being properly intimate with a women.

I was really excited - very nervous. They changed their tune later in the evening to trying to get me to come straight to their hotel room which made me a little uncomfortable.

Anyway about 2 hours before the date my hand got slammed in the car. I tried icing, pain relief etc. The pain got worse and I ended up in after hours getting a xray etc as my primary was worried I broke it.

Luckily it wasn't broken just really bruised and some tissue damage. It's been strapped and was told to ice and rest it.

I informed this couple what I was doing and they didn't really believe I was in A&E and even questioned that the wind wasn't blowing so my story seemed illogical. I'm sitting here in pain trying to prove to them I was where I was - sending snaps of me in xray in waiting etc.

They didn't once ask if im okay and said that if isn't broken i should still come out etc. Still playing off that I'll be fine etc. I told them the final verdict that the doctor said I should stay home and rest and ice and im feeling pretty in pain and miserable. They just ghosted me. Didn't really care if I got better etc.

I understand their frustrations about obviously being excited and this going wrong. I shared these feelings as well. If I was their in their shoes I would be making sure they were okay before forcing anything sexual and simply checking in.

What do y'all think? Am I overthinking in my pain or were they kinda dickish. I mean not even asking if someone was okay is quite rude.