Hello! me (18f) and my boyfriend (18m) have been together for a little over a year and he's the loml. I know he's the one for me and i plan on marrying him. I'm bisexual and have only been in one other relationship which was with a girl. l'm still fairly young and curious so we agreed to a one sided open relationship. He's 100% monogamous but feels secure enough in our relationship to let me experiment. This open relationship is ONLY sexual and not romantic. The idea of romantically being involved with another partner is definitely not for me. I'm really excited try new things!
Now for my questions,
-is there a name for only want a sexual relationship? or name for all this in general?
-what are some ways i make sure he always knows he's my #1 priority?
-health and safety, what does that all include?
-any extra tips?
One last thing! This is not a forever thing, I can't see my self continuing this past 21. Thanks!!
I'm not going to be the only one to point out that this is unkind and toxic.
Hello! me (18f) and my boyfriend (18m) have been together for a little over a year and he's the loml. I know he's the one for me and i plan on marrying him. I'm bisexual and have only been in one other relationship which was with a girl. l'm still fairly young and curious so we agreed to a one sided open relationship.
That seems really beyond unfair and fucked up..
He's 100% monogamous but feels secure enough in our relationship to let me experiment.
Monogamy is an agreement between two people to be sexually and romantically exclusive. This isn't monogamy.
-is there a name for only want a sexual relationship? or name for all this in general?
Yes. "Seeking sexual only relationships"
He won't get monogamy or be in a monogamous relationship.
No monogamy here.
No.
Monogamy is an agreement between two people to be romantically and sexually exclusive. Its about an agreement with another person about how you will behave. Thats why it has to be discussed. People who start dating aren't monogamous from the first date. They may be dating around until they agree to be monogamous.
Bisexual means you are attracted to multiple genders. Its about how you feel inside. It requires no agreement from anyone.
He may prefer monogamy. But is isn't getting here.
Just as a person who may prefer a same sex relationship isn't getting it if they are in a relationship only with a person who is opposite sex.
Not the same. One is a feeling. One is an agreement.
I believe people have a preference for monogamy or polyamory. He may prefer monogamy, but he won't get it. And it's important to acknowledge that if he WANTS monogamy, there is no monogamy here.
She said he is monogamous.
No monogamy here if they open.
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People consent to all kinds of messed and toxic arrangements.