I am in a long-distance relationship. We are very much in love with each other. She has a very high sex drive so we sext often, which I love to do. We have a great relationship outside one thing: she has a pretty massive kink for NTR or “cuckolding”.

She brought it up several times and wants to involve me in it. Basically, it’s been a long time since she’s been intimate with someone and yearns for it. She’s been wanting to hook up with a guy, just once, and text me during. She is fine with almost any condition I set for it. She doesn’t want any kissing during, he will be blindfolded, etc.

I have some relationship experience but none were with this high sex-drive nor with such a kink. I can tell it means a lot to her but she told me she would never do it if it makes me sad.

I’d rather not do it at all, personally. I know no feelings are involved so it’s less jealousy, but I don’t want her to unconsciously compare my performance to some other guy. But I know this will mean she’ll just be pent up, especially given our current distance. She assured me it would be a one time thing and I’d be very involved.

I think, if I can set some conditions down, I might be willing to do it just once. I’d especially rather agree to it because, shitty as I am to think that, her hypersexuality is to the point where she’d either be miserable, or she’d go ahead and do it quietly. I’d rather at least be involved if she does.

I wanted to ask this for experienced kinky people: if you had such a kink, would you be satisfied with just one time? Did you ever end up comparing your partner’s performance to whoever you indulged in this cuckold kink with? How did it affect your relationship?