Hey everyone! 27/male here

I'm currently single. I have a few fwb who sort of come and go.

I'm naturally introverted and I think I'm a little avoidantly attached so I actually kind of like that distance.

Anytime I meet someone new, I explain that I'm looking for something non-exclusive and casual so they know exactly what they're signing up for.

Sometimes, people don't assume it's non-exclusive so I just like to be very upfront about it.

I feel like this arrangement is pretty fair as it's open on both sides.

I'm naturally pretty jealous, but because it's casual it's easier to get over.

I also prefer we just don't ask don't tell.

If they happen to allude to it or it's just blatantly obvious they've been hanging out with somebody else, I don't get upset at them or make my jealousy their problem.

This is all working pretty well for me so far.

I would consider myself someone who values their freedom and is a bit promiscuous. I don't think I can picture myself having eyes for only one person or turning down the opportunity to reconnect with an old flame.

I like the freedom to pursue someone new I might meet etc

As I'm sitting here overanalyzing (a true talent of mine) I'm trying to think of what I might be open to in the future

While I like this arrangement, I'm curious if I should explore something more serious.

I don't want to get into old age and regret never challenging my natural inclinations or experiencing a whole other side of relationships besides the casual ones I'm pursuing now

My dilema is I can't see myself being monogamous, nor can I see myself in a fully open relationship.

Additionally, I feel like a one-sided open relationship (on my side) would be unfair.

So the only options I can think of that are left are: - Just keep doing what I'm doing - Figure out how to be monogamous

I can't imagine there's an arrangement where I would get everything I want.

I imagine there might be a world in which you meet someone who changes what you want, but I haven't met them yet.

Anyways, would love any perspective or ideas you guys can share!