Me and my partner are new to open relationships and have tried the poly thing too but having multiple partners was kinda hard for me, mentally but bc of jealously but because I found it hard to put effort into another person like that so we're open. The problem is, however, I like do stuff with people all the time and they don't do much, they said they kissed someone at a party once but that's it. I keep encouraging them to meet new people because I meet sooooo many people and it seems like I'm constantly telling them "hey I'm about to do this" and they're fine about it, but they just don't seem to care about others which is fine.

I want them to have fun though, have quality of life y'know? I don't want to FORCE them to do anything however. I'm just asking for advice on how I can encourage them more I guess, we're new to this and yeah. I don't know how to explain it but it makes me feel weird(?) I'm meeting all these people and they are just totally platonic with everyone