I am sure it’s not just me and my partner that is hit with the nerves of meeting others in the bedroom.

Don’t get me wrong the nerves are good stomach butterflies and it’s a sexy anticipation of the pleasure that is coming.

However as we haven’t yet been successful in meeting (we were going to last night but the person got cold feet)

I couldn’t help wonder if my nerves would stop me from enjoying the moment, myself getting “stage fright” or performance anxiety.

How do you overcome these feels and ultimately let yourself relax into an evening of pleasure and exploration?

P.S My partner and I are not massive drinkers nor drink on work nights.

Any help would be greatly appreciated.