How to explain to fwb that I’m planning on perusing someone else romantically.

This post has been de-listed

It is no longer included in search results and normal feeds (front page, hot posts, subreddit posts, etc). It remains visible only via the author's post history.

Author Summary

The_Transcendent1111 is in Peru

Post Body

So I’ve been seeing someone now for about 2 years. I’ve explicitly laid the boundary down that I don’t want to date them, they understand and we have weekly sexual visits. Now recently a new person came into my life and we really vibe at a deep romantic level. Ethically, I feel that fwb should know that I’m planning on seeing/dating someone else in a monogamous manner.

How do I go about explaining that to fwb in a way that won’t hurt them too badly? I’m having trouble finding the proper words.

Should I still keep in contact afterwards?

Author

Account Strength

100%

Account Age

7 years

Verified Email

Yes

Verified Flair

Total Karma

14,522

Link Karma

2,980

Comment Karma

11,336

Profile updated: 1 day ago

Posts updated: 7 months ago

The_Transcendent1111

Subreddit

r/nonmonogamy

Post Details

Location

Peru

We try to extract some basic information from the post title. This is not always successful or accurate, please use your best judgement and compare these values to the post title and body for confirmation.

Posted: 7 months ago
Reddit URL: View post on reddit.com
External URL: reddit.com/r/nonmonogamy...