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Recently opened my relationship up with my bf as he's backpacking for over a year and we didn't want each other to not have sex for that long.
It's like being a teen again. So many awkward moments. I won't say they've all been bad, but there's been like 2 times where it felt fulfilling. Where I actually felt like I was on the same page as them at every step of the way.
Not saying I'm flawless here either, as definitely built up habits and preferences based on being with my bf for several years, some of which have been why things didn't flow well.
I'm definitely enjoying the freedom and the fun of meeting new partners at least.
Idk, I kinda enjoy the awkward bumbling phase. You only really get it once.
The learning what they like. Sueprising yourself or them if you find something even they didn't know they liked. Laughing if you bonk heads or get a cramp from a new position.
Yes it's awkward, but if you embrace it it has its own joys.
Idk, I kinda enjoy the awkward bumbling phase. You only really get it once.
The learning what they like. Sueprising yourself or them if you find something even they didn't know they liked. Laughing if you bonk heads or get a cramp from a new position.
Yes it's awkward, but if you embrace it it has its own joys.
That was actually one of the good experiences. It was still awkward, but we were still very much of the same wavelength at least and had a great night.
But a lot have just been rushed, or like no effort to find out what we both like and just trying what we know we like etc.
Some have just been on the bad side as well.
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That was actually one of the good experiences. It was still awkward, but we were still very much of the same wavelength at least and had a great night.
But a lot have just been rushed, or like no effort to find out what we both like and just trying what we know we like etc.
Some have just been on the bad side as well.