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Good day fellow dating app users,
After recently picking Tinder back up, I've been reminded of just how little effort is put into some of these profiles OR somehow some people think the blurry pics of them looking down at the camera without even smiling is what gets us going.
This is just my humble list of tips ✨️ for dating apps that might be what us ladies are looking for. Anyone else please feel free to add on.
- Smile (or at least don't look angry or bored)
- Turn some lights on
- let the camera focus
- Don't make every single picture the same image of you from a slightly different angle.
- if taking a pic in a mirror, move the phone away from your face (unless you're intentionally being secret)
- I appreciate you can fish, but maybe don't have ALL your pics be you holding up one.
- Stop flipping the camera off.
- one pic of your car/truck is nice but don't make it your personality.
- make sure the pics were taken this decade.
- have at least one face and one full body pic.
Lastly, please actually write something in your bio other than your Instagram handle. Put SOME effort in.
Anyone else have some nuggets of advice?
I'm not a lady, but the best tip by far for most men is to get the fuck off dating apps and meet people at NM/poly events in your local community. Most places have something pretty close by, and you're not competing with every other thirsty dude within twenty miles.
It's important to remember that dating apps are designed to leverage our sense of scarcity to separate us from money, not to help us find dates!
100% agree.
For ripped body show off pics, I'd rather have one where he's shirtless and sweaty and covered in dirt or grease from working on the car or in the yard. Blue collar ripped is hotter than squeaky clean
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I am guilty of that once, but it was a classy ass bathroom and I was at a party and looked fly as fuck