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Is a swingers club my best bet if I want to have casual sex with just one other person?
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I (43F) want to be able to go to an event and have a casual hook up or two, but only with a man/men. Is that doable at a swingers club or is it pretty much standard that the only men that go, go with a partner, and both in the couple have to be involved in any hook-ups?

Also, wtf do I expect when I go to one of these thing? How do I find one? Also, Iā€™m awkward AF, any suggestions. Sometimes a girl just wants to get laid with absolutely no expectations after. And it seems the men I meet are looking for relationships.

Iā€™m asking in this forum since I figure yall would know about swingers clubs and scenes. If you know of a better forum, please LMK!

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The only time I have not used protection is when I was only having sex with my own wife, which is an aspect that happens a lot swing clubs where couples have sex with each other.

So you have unprotected sex at swinger clubs, but went nuts on the person who says there is plenty of condom free sex at clubs?

but in my experience most do.

That's far different than saying it always happens and its rule at every place.

and they all require it.

They don't. And even you don't always use condoms yourself. And you know many others don't as well.

You're talking out of both sides of your mouth.

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Safe sex is practiced at all clubs.

Man, you know this isn't true.

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