I never ever ever dreamed of earning a secured attachment.

I always thought I'd be my anxious avoidant little self. I had come to terms with the insecurities, the envy, the intrusive thoughts.

I have my little polycule of folks, and I am the happiest and most content I've ever been.

My marriage is in the best place it's ever been. We still have moments, who the hell doesn't. But they don't last and the feelings don't linger for days on end.

Non Monogamy was just the environment, I did the work to get here, and I had a ton of helping hands.

Just wanted to share a positive moment in the thread. It's roughly two months shy of a year since we re opened our marriage. Reading my post history is wild. I'm in a completely different place from when I started.

🥰 Good things can happen. Even when you start off scared. The unknown can lead to beautiful bright and happy moments.