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This seems like a fairly naive question for this group, but I was having a discussion about my relationship with my husband and I (30s m/f) and since we are in an open relationship, but he chooses not to date because it's too much work and he's an introvert, but I do have consented FWB on the side, my friend asked me if I consider myself a Hotwife?
Initially I heard "hot wife" not "Hotwife" which is apparently different. My husband doesn't gain anything from hearing about my dates or sexusl activities, which is more a cuck thing (he's not) but would that still make me a Hotwife?
I googled it but I figured I'd ask here to get more insight.
Thanks for the clarification.
We have been to the doc and everything is fine. He is open to a MFM threesome (or fem NB) but that opportunity hasn't arisen. I've looked into swingers scenes but we live super remote and the nearest location is at least 2 hours away. He does have depression, but that pops up from time to time unprovoked. He is moderately active and joins me at the gym about half the time.
He's also of the mindset of "I don't need any additional people in my life in any capacity." Level of introvert.
I check in mentally ALL the time. This openness was his idea. Soooo... shrug
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Thank you. That was a very well formatted response. Yes it's all very consensual. He just doesn't care for the details.