So my bf and so are mid thirties and have been wanting to try group sex for awhile. He has some threesome experience; I don’t. We have been seeing a couple but nothing physical yet until last night. Her husband was away and she wanted to come over. I asked her boundaries and she said her and I are a yes, but no with my man until her husband is present. Well my man and I had sex 3 times in front of her; she went down on me while I sucked his cock. She held my hair, dirty talked us, and told me how to suck his cock. We made out and played with each other while we fucked, he made lots of eye contact with her, she touched his body but no sexual contact with genitals. She wanted his cock so bad but couldn’t have it because her husband wasn’t present, but I told her how badly I wanted to see him fuck her. I wasn’t jealous at all. Sure; there was some twinges here and there but it wasn’t the sex stuff, it was the cuddling and touching before sex, and it passed effortlessly and felt natural when I looked at my partner and saw how he was enjoying her and me.

I’m surprised that what unsettled me more than any jealousy or fear of being left out, was the protective feelings I had for my partner. I felt very protective of his psychological safety. He has trauma and I was protective of his triggers, and of him being objectified. Ultimately he loved it. But she was quite dominant and there was a time where she had him pinned where I felt really on edge like “is he okay?” “Is he enjoying this?”. And ultimately interjected and told them to create a safe word. He’s normally super dominant so it was new and scary to see, but not because I felt I was jealous or insecure, more so that I was just plain worried about him. I was surprised that I didn’t feel jealous seeing him be dominated even though I know that’s something I could never give him, because I’m such a sub. It felt so hot and erotic to see her want him, and to watch him revel in being worshipped by us. It was also incredibly erotic watching him look at her while he fucked the shit out of me. Overall though it was great and I can’t wait for more.

Also on a side note, does this count as a threesome? Want to know if I popped my cherry haha.