So, after the story came to happen as flagged here... https://www.reddit.com/r/nonmonogamy/s/F0Myo11dLf

My wife and I discovered many things.

First, she came home from "running" when in fact she was dripping cum. I found cum in the toilet and in her G string, almost like she wanted to be found.

After a long talk and quite a few tears, she confessed that she has been meeting Luke at his place for over a couple of months now.

Whilst I feel betrayed on one end, it excited me the idea that she was finally being happy after so long. He came over as well, we had a long talk and settle to open the Marriage.

When he was leaving, he noticed I was still emotional and he gave me a long hug and a quick kiss in the lips... And then he left.

I was lost...

My wife saw it and had a smile about it.

Later on, she told me that she found out my little secret and she played a prank on that...

It happens, that I have been using a chastity cage and a piece of lingerie. She stumbled on those by complete mistake. In an act of malice (we play pranks like this every now and then), she started mixing estrogens in my food.

It happens that I have always had hormonal imbalances. So, by the time she starting her relationship with Luke, I was given estrogens...

I was mesmerised. I didn't know what to say. The hot flushes I have been having for weeks were no less that phyro estrogens in my blood stream.

While I was processing all that, she started touching my nipples (that by now look like areolas). They were so sensitive that I came in an instant.

To say that is a lot, it's been months since we had any kind of intimacy!

My mind was spinning. Just hours ago we were talking about divorce and now she was playing with my body.

After this, she told me I don't have to hide my cage or underwear when she's around. She told me I start looking cute and pretty.

She started telling me all the details about things with Luke. How often they meet, the times they almost got caught, all the joy they were having togheter.

God, I felt so much envy! Two things mainly: the fact that she made her happy in ways I never did AND how much pleasure she was having while I was just alone and caged.

When I told her that, she felt a bit of petty, but she told me something very unexpected, that she wanted Luke at least to fuck me once. She has not told this to him, but she is plotting for that to happen, at least once.

When I asked her if she loved him, she hesitated a bit, but confirmed that she loves him too.

She told me that she has not sopped loving me, but sex is and has always been a big part of her life, and she does not want to lose me or the sex, or both.

I understood it all after I remembered that little kiss he gave me. He was so damned hot. The hug with those big and firm arms...

She told me that being a good husband and father was not all the story for me. She told me that she felt aroused with the idea of the caging and underwear, so she asked me of I'd like to try some HRT, dressings, even plugs. Even another redditor suggested a Dildo and she was so happy with the idea.

So, for the time being we are staying married, they can keep having encounters at his place (she actually is turning her GPS for me), I'm exploring HRT, and his birthday dinner is still happening.

We still need to address the daughter topic at some point.