My boyfriend and I opened up our relationship in February, by his demand. I didn’t want to but faced between that or breaking up I caved. Since opening the relationship I actually really enjoy it now, I’ve gained a LOT of confidence and have been also putting a lot of work into myself/my appearance again and just overall feel better.

This issue I’m having now is that I’m noticing I’m just not really that into my boyfriend anymore, which I used to be VERY into him, like unhealthy into him. Now honestly I just don’t really find myself interested in what he’s up to in his life anymore. (He also recently started getting really into religion which is weirding me out a touch) like I can go the entire day without texting him and I don’t really care, but before I’d get upset if we weren’t talking all day.

I don’t know if this is normal in open relationships. He still seems really into me, and I think he’s been dropping hints he feels upset we aren’t as close as we used to be. Am I monogamous and maybe because I’m sleeping with other people now I’m not able to attach to him the same way? Nothing else about our relationship changed since opening it, aside from if anything he’s sweeter to me now. So I don’t know why I feel so differently now