So me (35F) and my husband 34(M) have been to a few play parties we first played with each other and the last part we went to about 2 days ago. I was playing with a few others separately. My husband is super supportive he wanted to watch but wanted me comfortable so he left. (I did tell him later he could have stayed) But he wants to make sure my comfort level is max. Which is was after having played with someone separate I felt less nervous was able to shed clothing and just walk around and not care. I would say it popped my mental cherry (lol) But as for him he was pretty nervous but socializing really well. I know it can be hard for men to find play partners but I saw other men meeting women that night and being able to play. I want to be a good wing woman for my husband but I don't know how to help him or what tips I can give a man to find a play partner.

Can anyone give me tips to help OR say tips here that I can relay to him?

Also I have heard on another r/ that I might sound like a unicorn hunter....I respect all sexualities. But sexual intimacy is big for me and I'm not sexually attracted to women. So by no means do I want a woman or even a unicorn.

All is appreciated.