Hey folks,
Iām curious about something. My primary partner is always on the apps chasing new people. I understand that for men things are harder and more effort is necessary. But I wonder if being on the apps on a daily basis indicates a deeper issue.
He has two other partners now. Part of me thinks that this constant chasing is a sign we are failing as a couple. He says he is just having fun and exploring himself but why he is never satisfied then?
Any input is appreciated!
Not exactly unusual for a guy to be on the apps daily; in fact, most guys on the apps only see action if they put forth effort on a daily basis. If you're just waiting for stuff to happen, it probably never will.
But if this person already has multiple partners and they're still on the apps all the time, that might speak to some kind of addictive behavior. It's possible they're not even aware of the pattern.
I think establishing hardlines (i.e., don't cruise on the apps when y'all are on a date) and then just sticking to those is probably your best bet.
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