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For context, we’ve been together almost 5 years. She used to date/hook up with this guy about a year before we met. She said that beyond the sex they were just good friends. Recently he moved back to the area and he messaged her to see if they could get together and catch up. Now I have no problem with her hooking up with other guys and she’s admitted that he was a great fuck. I’m just unsure if the fact that he was an ex lover/fuck buddy/ whatever you want to call it would make this a bad idea. She would never do anything that I’m not comfortable with and after hearing about their past escapades I’m definitely turned on by the idea. I’m just curious about other peoples thoughts or personal experiences with something similar.
If he really was just a FWB, I honestly can’t think of anyone better for her to hook up with.
She knows him, knows if he’s safe and will respect her, knows what he’ll bring to the table, so to speak.
If he really was just a FWB, I honestly can’t think of anyone better for her to hook up with.
She knows him, knows if he’s safe and will respect her, knows what he’ll bring to the table, so to speak.
This. It's so difficult to feel safe with men if you're a woman
This is semantical nonsense. All of us know what OP meant.
You're being pedantic.
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This. It's so difficult to feel safe with men if you're a woman