Hi all,

I am recently in the non monogamy style and I’m happy to be here. It’s definitely the style I want/need for the rest of my life.

I am also recently involved in the cuck/bull/hotwife scene which is a subset of non monogamy.

At friendly gatherings with just the guys (long time since highschool friends) I casually and politely let them know that I’m a good bull and if they ever need a bull to let me know. (A few of them are in relationships). Note, I do not know any of them to be non monogamous. I am simply putting a feeler out because it’s a legitimate relationship style/lifestyle and I genuinely believe it doesn’t need to be hidden or embarrassing or taboo.

Basically all of my guy friends were quite offended by this for some reason. It’s like they don’t acknowledge it’s a valid lifestyle. I understand them not wanting to do it, of course lots of people don’t like it, but why the need for rudeness or offence?

When I let them know, I wasn’t pushy, and I was respectful.

What are your thoughts on this? Am I in the wrong?