My gf and I have discussed our mutual kink and fetishes toward cumslut, hot wife, et al. She loves to be dirty for daddy and I love the idea of watching and hearing all the details. I always imagined weād eventually find someone on a trip, random night out etc but we got on a hookup app. Her app says daddy likes to watch. She met a guy and told me about it. Convo only. They were on same train and on app at same time and matched. She asked if they can get a beer as sheās really into feeling a connection before sex. The beer went wellā several hours of chatting and I think sheās excited about him.
Her meeting solo wasnāt my initial idea. I want to be safe. This is new and being erotic together is a big part of this. She kind of wants to play it more organically and see what happens first. Sheād like to be with him first 1:1 I think and doesnāt want to immediately spook the guy that I must be present. Iām feeling excited and weāve had sex all weekend, but I feel unsure about not just being straight up and us all meeting. She asked me to trust her. Seeking advice how to handle without being a wet blanket.
Side note: she only will allow same room for me and thatās down the road.
If youāre not comfortable with it, donāt go through with it. And sit down and talk things through more than you seem to have done so so far. In this game you canāt āassumeā or āimagineā how things will be; you have to agree upon it.
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You commit to sex without knowing who we are or what we look like? Yikes.
Iām saying she wants to explore this solo before bringing it in all together. The solo play boundary seems to have moved quickly - even though it makes a lot of sense. Iām trying to be okay with it. I like telling my lady to be naughty for me, and in the is scenario Iām on the outside looking in. It feels too cucky for me, but Iām still weirdly excited-ish.