47m, UK. Until two months ago I was in a very loving, monogamous marriage to a 35f with a bit of a vanilla sex life. We’re still married and in love but no longer monogamous!

I’ve always been very attracted to a poly lifestyle but never did anything about it. I’ve always dreamt of having a FFM threesome but never had, and after a couple of close shaves had kind of given up. My true dream has been to be shared by two women, ie kind of be a unicorn. A few years ago I lived with three girls for a few months. Nothing was ever going to happen but just being in that environment was a huge turn on. My wife and I had vague chats about opening up but it was always for the future (kids, health, life took precedent).

But suddenly that changed and I can’t really pinpoint why, and we agreed to start dating independently via the apps. It’s gone really well. We’ve both had some fun dates and more and both have a little set of FWBs very easily.

We talked about having a threesome and it became a real prospect when she started dating a younger girl (27). We all met for coffee (I was so nervous/excited), got on and then at the weekend it happened. The girl came over, we had food and drink and then they went upstairs. Twenty minutes later I got the best text ever - ‘you may join us now x’. It was great. Intimate, lots of kissing, lots of sharing, all combinations (including the three I’d dreamt of: both riding me, both giving me a blowjob, both draped around me on either side touching me).

My wife and the other girl want to do it again and we’re texting about it (and also just the two of them want to have sex together, which is cool: the other girl is mostly gay and they’ve been dating a while now). My wife has been clear that she doesn’t want to end up in a throuple, she just wants other partners with each other as the primary, so we’re not officially poly in any of this which is fine.

But there’s more!

A girl I’ve seen four times was due to come over tonight for a much planned threesome but my wife is poorly so we’ve rescheduled. They’ve already met for coffee and are texting naughty things they want to do to me (and each screenshotting me the results which is killing me). It will definitely happen, there’s a lot of mutual attraction.

PLUS another girl who I’ve had one date with wants to be our unicorn. It’s all new to her, she’s basically been googling things and realised that’s what she wants. That’s obviously a bit much for my wife, but anyway they’ve also met, snogged, and now we’re in a three way WhatsApp group (Snog Squad) for planning and flirting purposes. It’s amazing: this girls dream is to be shared by my wife and I, on call, in the middle of us getting pleasured, and is really turned on by knowing she’s one of a few. She had what sounds like a play-poly stage as a teenager when a mixed group of about 8 used to just hang out casually dating and she loved that energy. I fancy her a lot and am so excited about our inevitable coming together.

Finally and in a way most excitingly: it’s genuinely my number one fantasy to kind of get adopted by a female couple who just use me for fun when they feel like it. I’ve matched today with an older couple round the corner who want exactly that. They want a man for casual threesomes and intimacy. The three of us are meeting on Saturday. I’m breathless with excitement about the possibilities.

This is obviously all too much and unsustainable. But two months ago I was in a loving, monogamous, slightly vanilla sex-wise marriage and now this!

Not sure if this post will get traction or just a lot of rolling eyes, but I wanted to share it with you all.