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I keep making mistakes and my partner doesn’t feel like he can trust me anymore. I find it so hard to navigate texting and how much to share with him over text when I’m seeing other people. Last night I shared a bed with my fwb but nothing sexual happened we just fell asleep together. My partner is upset because I didn’t tell him I was staying over but in my head I didn’t have to because nothing was going to happen that he would have to worry about as I wouldn’t sleep with her without texting him first and making sure it was okay. I keep making mistakes like this not telling him things over text and filling him in when I see him and every time it feels like the right decision to wait until we’re in person to talk it though but that’s not what he wants. I keep breaking his trust and I feel like such a shit person and partner right now. Am I the problem (I already know the answer)
It sounds to me that either A) he has some control issues or B) the two of you haven’t had a proper discussion about needs, wants and boundaries.
Do you live together or apart?
(Edited to make sense of B)
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