My partner had agreed to try non-monogamy. This has made me very happy and excited, but she isn’t ready to try it yet. She has had many eye opening moments about why non-monogamy could be a great option for us. I’ve expressed how I feel like it’s something I really need out of a relationship. She isn’t sure how she feels, but for right now is happy not seeing anyone else.

Where I struggling is how accepting and understanding she has been, but yet won’t go ahead and give it a try. The other day we role played that I had just gone on a date, and we talked about how it went and ended up having amazing sex afterwards. I thought that was huge progress, but today it seems like none of that mattered. I’m just trying to understand And be patient with her, but this is something I really want. Just needed to vent and any advice is helpful.