Some background first. My wife and I are both 28, together for 8 years, married for 3. We've had ups and downs regarding sex mainly due to some religious upbringing issues on her part, but things are pretty much resolved. I've always been the kinky one, and she's been more vanilla. I never try to push anything (and typically don't even mention anything to her), but she has slowly been opening up herself.

For the past yearish, she has developed a fascination with things being more open. Every time we watch porn together, she chooses either a FFM or orgy video, and swinging. She has said on multiple occasions how fun it would be, if only it wasn't so wrong. I don't know how likely it is that she'll come around to actually wanting to try, but if so, what is the best way to start things out?

I also wouldn't mind advice on how to help her along with it because the idea of her in an orgy or swapping has been a fun thought to entertain. I definitely wouldn't push her or try to convince her or anything, I'm just saying I wouldn't complain.

Thanks for any possible advice!