ENM is the best thing ever.

My wife is exploring finding one FWB which is all she wants. I’m more interested in having multiple experiences of various kinds with different people. (Except ONS which I’m not really into.)

We are so supportive of each other. I’m impressed by what she tells me about the thoughtfulness of her potential dude.

She lets me talk about my adventures and fantasies about exploring different kinds of people. For instance today I told her that a woman was flirting with me in a bar last night. I had realized I didn’t have a good polite way of letting her know I was NM. Wife helped me come up with an approach for future use. She also gives me grooming and sartorial advice. She’s the coolest.

Meanwhile, we are more and more turned on by each other. We’ve had the hottest sex of our lives, which for early 60s after 25 years of monogamy-including years of a dead bedroom-is. . . thrilling, to say the least!!

I’m aroused all day long thinking of her and others that I meet. (Which is also thrilling for being my age.)

Why? How? Because we are letting each other be true to ourselves and our humanity!! We’re not playing games of “happily ever after” or “you meet all my needs.” Etc.

Consequently, and counterintuitively, we feel more and more in love, and more and more able to love others.

And young people think they invented sex!! Good luck everyone!!! Life is short. Go for it. Make those you love feel loved!!