Hello everyone! I have a doubt about my relationship and no one close to discuss or share this experience, so here I am.

Me (29M) and my husband (25M) started a open relationship from beginning. It was mostly about sex with another people, together or apart. But about a year ago I met someone and had a emotional connection with him. I won't get into details because the three of us are fine with the situation overall, but what happen is: I don't feel fully comfortable to talk about this other guy to my husband.

We live the situation and discuss about it only when get to some crisis, and just enough to solve it. But sometimes I miss just talking about it, not as a "crisis management" case but just as something that happens in my life just as my work, family, friends, college... it seems like feelings for another people is allowed, but with this secrecy aura.

What about you guys experience? There is a limit for what can be talked with each other? Is there a explicit or a silent agreement about what are discussed and what aren't? It's just a phase and it will pass? Or it's better let somethings be?