My partner and I are, thus far, monogamous but we are also interested in monogamish experiences and be reasonable people who want to spend life together and feel good about it. Were interested in group sex etc. Not sure where it will go but it’s always evolving.

I am bisexual and have been having some make outs with girls at parties that we both attend lately. He has always supported me engaging that way and I have fun doing it.

The other night after one such party we stayed up late having sex after and it was super fun. In the morning he asked me what I thought about him making out with another girl.

I realllllly would love him to have an experience like that but it does feel a little different and I want to proceed with caution and slowly. He told me that there was someone flirting with him the other night but it was after I left so he held back from doing anything — which was very thoughtful since we had not discussed.

I communicated that I felt like that would be fun but I would probably like to be around when it happens at first and maybe he could just give me a head’s up as well.

These wouldn’t be permanent boundaries at all but is this an ok request or is there a better way to ease in?