Hi 💕 so I’m single but I have been dating people for some months now, most of the people I date are in this lifestyle (poly, ENM and swinging) except for one. This person has only been in monogamous relationships and because we both were looking for just fun, he is fine that I have sex and date other people. This past week he’s been super distant and finally disclosed he’s been going out with and fucked someone else, and I honestly was crushed. I don’t know why this bothered me so much as we’ve talked about this many times. When my other partners are with other people it doesn’t hurt but this one made me rethink maybe I’m not built for this. Has this happened to anyone else? Advice on how to snap out of my feelings? I think maybe because with this person it’s always been insanely passionate (I have to have u now) type of thing and I don’t know how to not feel a little jealous ðŸ˜
Do you think that maybe you feel an extra sense of jealousy because he’s mono at heart? That there is an added threat that you would likely lose him if he ends up liking this other person whereas that’s not the given outcome with the other poly/ENM dates you have?
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