This whole journey was jumpstarted with a proposition for a threesome by our then new acquaintance and now FWB.

So much deeper communication with my spouse, roller coasters of emotions, sleepless nights and anxious days, some of the best sex I’ve ever had. Wow.

We had talked very briefly in the fall about ENM and that lead to reading through forums, posts, literature and shows on the topic to understand the headspace. Now here we are. Getting attention on Feeld (particular from straight men who just wanna fuck my wife lmao), slowly building connections with beautiful people, making friends in odd places, getting to be flirty and not think like I’m doing something unethical. It’s so great! I wish I’d done this years ago.

This is all still so new but I’m glad I get to read people’s posts about their experiences. It makes me really feel like I’m not alone in some of my anxieties but also reminds me that I’m not fucking batshit crazy sometimes (yes, I’m talking to you: people who do absolutely zero research and/or soul searching and decide that you wanna fuck someone new and call it “ENM”).

Thanks for being such a fun community and giving me a new outlook on life and meaning in new relationships. Monogamy might have never been for me and I’m glad that we took the plunge.