My fiance and I tried opening the relationship due to my health issues. But he got scammed twice by women supposed women. He's deep in the hole financially now. I told him this experience showd me that I simply want him for myself I don't trust another woman with him and he's such a softy such a good person to want to help and like I get it but he's caregiver burned out. So I advised him to just try get a small weekend getaway just for himself. To recharge and rest. Told him tomorrow to sleep in stay in bed all day if he wants I'll be fine. I think us realizing this about ourselves helped us and hopefully moving forward we can progress. I love him I really do and we are gonna try to find ways I can provide for him sexually in ways that don't hurt myself.

I don't condemned anyone here I think is awesome for those that are able to do an open relationship to do it. Whichever way that is for any of you. I like your kindness the first time I posted this. I truly love him and want what's best for him. I'm glad that with the help of his therapist and me reminding him that he's great at expressing himself in writing well we were able to communicate and try to come to a good place for us both. Now I'm on the haunt for leggings since he loves those on me to surprise him!