So my partner (m35) and I (f 34) have been nonmono for 2 years now and though I have been the more active and honestly reason why we began it's been a journey of getting over my mono ways of thinking. One big hurdle has been having sex with my other partners while my primary is in the house but not participating. Though he has expressed that he is ok with the idea I have been uncomfortable with it and only had people over when he was out of the house. Mainly it has felt like a betrayal to be having sex with someone else even though he was there and able to provide so to speak.

Well this last weekend despite all my planning my primarys plans changed and he was home. I have been really horny for this partner though so the plans continued. Afterwards we all got food and the once he left we sat down and talked and surprisingly it went well. Though it was fun trying to cross the hallway to the bathroom afterwards so we could clean up. Luckily I had a robe for him to use so he wouldn't have to get dressed to make that journey.