In a 5 year relationship, recently opened up. Connected with a guy in an open relationship, great chemistry, met 4 times. Started with consistent, flirty/sexual texting, but he suddenly pulled back (he still texts me everyday though). Now, conversations feel like those with friends, lacking the desired casual, flirty vibe. Wondering if it's reasonable to feel sad/confused. Tried discussing it; he claims to want the same but his responds are vague and not straight forward. Seeking advice or shared experiences in navigating open relationships! I originally typed out a huge post with more background / context, but didn’t think it was necessary and would have been too overwhelming for you to read. Just comment if you have a clarifying question.

Ps. My partner and I are really loving ENM. We feel so liberated finally feeling confident and free going against societal norms and structures!