Hey guys,

So me (M29) and my partner (M32) are in an open relationship. However it is not as open as I would like it to be and I get the feeling I am enjoying it more than he is.

Our relationship started as monogamous relationship, but I figured out soon that being monogamous is not my cup of tea.

I enjoy sexual activities with other human beings and I cannot imagine having sex with just one partner.

Around a year ago we started an open relationship and we had sex with other people together, as well as alone.

But somehow I am the only one that is still using the open part of our relationship. I had some brief encounters with other guys in the form of cruising, but that is it. He didn’t date anymore.

I want him to be more open and explore and enjoy. I also want to feel more free.

How do I bring this up?