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I'm male 40. Bi/pansexual. My gf has met 2 men at a swinger party and is playing with one of them.
I do chat with his wife, but not sure if play is on the table.
I am a pleasure provider. I love giving oral. And making my partner have orgasms. I am a switch in kink. And make paddles for bdsm events. I participate in bdsm events. My partner doesn't.
I am looking to date as well. But not sure best way to word profile as it seems listing ENM on my bio is an immediate no from most people. Even if they are only looking for casual anyways.
Is it best to only bring it up after conversation for a bit. Or best to have it in the bio and never get any matches.
I'm 6ft, 6.5" and I'm a CEO of a company.
Looking for viewpoints from anyone.
As a single ENM woman, even looking for casual partners, I’m looking for someone who is more interesting than their job, dick size, and bedroom activities.
If your bio is similar to what you’ve listed here, it’s a pretty easy no for me.
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This might be a bit harsh, but I find this bio really boring/generic, and you don’t need to say you respect it if ENM isn’t for them. If it isn’t they just won’t swipe on you.
The first paragraph is a nothingburger. Most of us are on the apps to have a conversation that will hopefully lead to a date, ideally with someone that is respectful of our boundaries.
I would add some specifics that give you character and someone can use to ask you questions. What have you made recently? What kind of new food have you enjoyed? Why are you an interesting person that I would want to see consistently as more than just a sex partner?
Obviously this is just my own preference when perusing profiles, so take with a grain of salt.