I’ve been out with a handful of guys now that have made it pretty clear they’re not monogamous upfront. I am as well and am ok with it. Then fairly soon after it’ll trickle truth that they’re in relationships! Two were married. All of them I’ve told it’s not nice to tell me after and there’s no reason to not be upfront about it. The response is always very apologetic and “not knowing” why they dropped the ball.

Then it’s “you guys should meet!” 🤣

I hate this. it feels sneaky at most malicious and just spineless at least malicious. Anyone run into this?

(All of them I know (now) are actually NM and their partners have partners as well)