Hi everyone. I’m a 20F who wants to try being an addition to a couple again. I’ve been a 3rd once before for about 5 months and was basically dating a cute couple… mainly sexual encounters all together but some shopping sprees and nights out or dinners tgth. The girl and I were very close and hung out alone tgth sometimes which made it more fun for me bc she felt like a friend.

I recently found this new couple on tinder and we discussed wanting to start an arrangement/relationship all together. I offered them to meet me at my strip club when I’m working one night (tonight). They ended up showing up 30min before closing and I came to their VIP table to sit with them. They brought a few friends (which is fine) but it made me feel neglected…

1. Hubby and wifey kept telling me to go to one another the entire time. Eg: id sit with wife and shed say “I just want to spend time with my friends go play w my husband”. Then when I’d go over to the hubby he’d say “oh go play with and please my wife. She wants you”. And I felt like a ping pong ball going back and forth.

2. Wifey saw one of her old friends dancing/stripping and went over to chat with her the rest of the night. While this happened hubby was just chatting with me telling me how happy they are to meet me.

3. I spent 30-40min with them towards the end of my shift and they only tipped me $100. They were also tipping other dancers which made me jealous bc they came to me and I could have made more by bouncing around to other customers.

I’m so hurt from how the night turned out. They left asking me to come back to their place and sent me their address. I told them I was feeling too sick. I really like their energy and they are extremely sexy. But I regret not getting a private room with them so we could’ve stayed and chatted after closing… thoguhts? Do I give second chance? Am I being sensitive? What to do next?