My partner and I have been in an ENM relationship for a couple of years and we occasionally meet other people, separately and very rarely together. It turns both of us on so much when one of us has met someone and it makes our sex super hot. We are very much into dirty talking and we usually tell each other what we do with our partners and it really makes our sex even better, hotter and wilder.

I feel like it has became a habit now and we never have sex without mentioning past experiences or potential future experiences.

Is it bad for our relationship? I’m afraid it’s not “normal” and could affect our attraction for each other as we are