My (33F) partner (38M) is frustrated with me, because I've been hesitant about threesomes. My first threesome was when I was a virgin and it was with my boyfriend who was closeted homosexual, and he left me put by playing with the male in the equation. I'm also processing my own sexuality.i have certain boundaries and hesitations surrounding threesomes and group se, with particular fears surrounding feeling left out. When we were talking about 2024 goals, it was supposed to be a general convo, but he brought up being able to have a threesome and alluded to me having so many boundaries that essentially I'm holding him back. I thought about it and said maybe he can do them without me, but I brought up things that might make me feel safe in him doing so, but then he got annoyed and said that I always have privos when I say these things ie conditions through which we can do things. It was in a way where is annoyed with me. I feel defeated, that all my hesitations hold him back, and as he comes into himself and his newfound confidence, ultimately I'm holding him back perhaps it would be best we break up ad he has the freedom to do so. I just feel like I fucking suck as a girlfriend.